Showing posts with label high school. Show all posts
Showing posts with label high school. Show all posts

25 July 2010

Authenticity Revisited.....

Or
"How my ego survived intact....."
mostly.


We arrived at the reunion early.....
as I had promised to 
be the impromptu 
"designated photographer".

(Which is funny in a way,
because there was a very good professional photographer
in our crowd, that would have put me to shame)

So.....
I started by shooting a general 
"record the setting" shot,
and was very pleased that the Owner/manager
of the Art Gallery/Co-op 
had all of the lights on 
HIGH!







I have many 
shots from later in the evening,
but I have not asked if it was ok
to use anyone's image,
so....
the only person I felt comfortable with 
a close up shot was 
my sweetie...
checking out the photographs from 
previous reunions...
maybe to see 
one of my ex's
(they don't all live in Texas,
though I wish they did....)









The gallery was the perfect location for this 
35th High School Reunion.
Comfortable, casual, 
relaxed....
it sort of set the tone for the evening.


I had made up my mind that if 
nothing else,
I could control my own attitude.

So....
I was determined to have a smile on my
face 90% of the time spent...

and 
I did just that.
I shot tons of images.
I talked to people I didn't even know in 
high school.
Or, people who I was so intimidated 
by, that I would have never approached, 
previously.

I was bold.
I asked if I could take their picture,
and then just started 
lining them up.....
some balked,
but were coerced by those 
around them.

Who are these old people?
I kept thinking.
Are they sure they are at the correct reunion?
I was stumped.

I didn't stop to eat,
and barely sipped a drink.
I was on a mission....


Well,
actually, shooting people is easier than 
actually making small talk.
I was nervous.

We left by 10 pm.
It was just gearing up to be 
a long night,
and I was tired.
So, 
home to the computer to 
upload the images.....


Good grief!
I looked as old as the rest!
Sweetie had nicely taken a photo of me with
several friends from elementary school.
One of which, I was in 1st grade with.


And do you know what?
Mostly,
everyone was as authentic,
as I could have wished for.
Some not.
But they are the same ones that 
were not in high school.
So be it.
I found that I had quite a few friends....
real friends.
We were actually quite glad to see each other,
and enjoyed catching up on children,
careers, and church (the 3 "C's")

I believe,
that my fun
had more to do with my attitude
than theirs....

Maybe you 
CAN 
wish yourself into a 
Good time!

smiles.....
smiles